In our search for happiness, we often rely on people and material possessions, only to find that the same things bring us pain. Why does this happen? Because our attachments are rooted in expectations and desires. True wisdom comes from understanding our real nature beyond the physical body and material needs. To transcend material desires, we must learn to detach from the fleeting pleasures of the physical world and focus on spiritual fulfillment.
The Illusion of Happiness Through Others
Many of us seek happiness from relationships, wealth, and status. We judge people based on beauty, riches, or influence rather than seeing them as they truly are human beings with their struggles and needs.
But have you ever questioned whether these external sources truly bring lasting happiness? When we expect others to fulfill our emotional needs, we set ourselves up for disappointment. Our attachments turn into dependencies, and with dependency comes suffering.
The Reality of Human Expectations
Even in friendships, we unknowingly set expectations. Can you truly say that you don’t expect a friend to call or check on you? Deep down, we all seek validation, companionship, and fulfillment from others. This cycle of expectation fosters selfishness, causing us to disconnect from the true essence of our humanity.
A high income might grant us luxuries, but money alone does not nourish the soul. Beyond material wealth, what truly matters is our character and the purity of our minds.
Transcending the Material World
To rise above worldly attachments and transcend material desires, we must shift our perspective. We are not merely physical bodies we are souls. When we identify with the body, we seek material pleasures, desires, and validation. But when we recognize our true nature as souls, we move beyond fleeting pleasures and discover deeper fulfillment. This is the key to overcoming the illusion of happiness derived from material possessions and external circumstances.
Following a path of righteousness (Dharma) gradually diminishes our karmic burdens. The more we walk the path of truth, the less we are trapped by worldly illusions.
The Journey to Self-Realization
Self-realization begins with understanding that you are not just a human being but a soul. This realization brings wisdom and gradually dissolves the mind’s attachments. As we mature spiritually, we detach from unnecessary desires and gain clarity.
The Role of Yogic Practices
Through dedicated practice, such as meditation and inner reflection, we can awaken our higher consciousness. Once disciplined, the mind will eventually dissolve, leading to ultimate liberation.
One of the highest spiritual milestones is the opening of the “Tenth Gate” (Dasam Dwar) through deep yogic practice. When this happens, the mind ceases to be a source of suffering, and we experience pure wisdom and inner peace.
Fearlessness in Letting Go
The idea of losing the mind might sound frightening, but in reality, it is the path to true enlightenment. When the mind dissolves, wisdom takes its place. Letting go of attachments and realizing the self is the key to understanding everything in this world.
Final Thoughts
True happiness does not come from external sources but from self-awareness and spiritual wisdom. By understanding our true nature, practicing compassion, and following a dharmic path, we can free ourselves from the illusions of the material world. The journey of self-realization is not about renouncing life but about seeing it for what it truly is a temporary experience leading to higher consciousness.