Everyone wishes to be a good, kind, and caring person. Yet, it has become a theoretical concept in this Kaliyuga. Nowadays, people start to think that we are a Mad Person, or Brainless ones when we start showing affection to them. Here in this article, our Guru shares his wonderful insights on Why I couldn’t be able to show Love or Affection to others completely, and the following are his words.

Key points about this article:

  1. This World thinks that the more the affection a person shows, there more chances that he is mad, and brainless, and he can be cheat easily. We are in Kaliyuga.
  2. Learn to show affection to others, but not all the time. When they go out of hand, then make them straight taking a upper hand.
  3. If one can show only affection all the time, then we is very deep into the spirituality. Vallalar quotes the same.
  4. Don’t get addicted to the fear of the others when you are straightening up. Otherwise, you will spoil your character, and ruin your life.
  5. Guruve Sharanam!

Why I couldn’t be able to show Love(Affection) to others completely:

This article is transcripted from the YouTube video of Bramma Sri Mahavishnu, the founder of Paramporul Foundation, and the following is the YouTube link.

Kindness is God’s gift. It is the tendency of the nature to give good things to others. In the same way, we may choose to show affection to others all the time but in today’s world, it backfires sometimes. People start to think that we are mad, and brainless as we are being affectionate to everyone all the time. They might even cheat the one who are being kind and affectionate to them.

The Biggest Truth:

I don’t want to be a bad person, and I want to be affectionate to others all the time. How to do that? Here is the solution. Be affectionate to him all the hand but the moment when he starts talking advantage of your Kindness, set him up straight with you anger. Take the upper hand. Make sure that he does not take advantage of your kindness.

For example, a watchman is working in your home. You are being kind to him all the time, getting him food, taking care of his welfare, and all. At certain point of time, if he starts to think that we are mad, and brainless as we are being too kind to him, then that is the time to set him straight. Make sure that you are not mad, or brainless and you are just being kind and if one takes advantage, then you will set him straight.

Conclusion of the Article:

If you can be kind to others all the time, then it is like you have reached the maximum level of spirituality and will be traveling with the speed of light(Divine Jothi), as Vallalar says. Just like our mother nature, be kind to all the others but when they take it for granted, then never hesitate to set them straight. Guruve Sharanam!

Thank you for your time and patience.